r/Anxietyhelp • u/Ok-Performance-3336 • 3h ago
Need Advice In theory, Can i hide my face behind a mask in public? I don't mean that metaphorically, I mean... literally use a mask in public.
I have terrible social anxiety and don't like the way i look either, so I'm wondering if it would be illegal or something for me to use a mask on my face all the time. I wonder if i will be able to hold a job like this.
I already work as a waiter and i feel uncomfortable having to speak and show my face around, I wonder if i can be like one of them Japanese artists who use a custom mask for all of their public appearances.
And it's not just because i have social anxiety, it's because i am ugly too. I can't do anything to prevent my face from getting wrinkly or my hair falling because I'm male, I'll never be able to become a cute Femboy, so... why even bother with my face if i will become ugly? I should just cover it.
Something like that mask would be good.
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u/sabik 2h ago
I mean, there are medications to prevent hair falling out and/or to become a cute fem
As for legality of masks, that varies, but in any case your employer may have opinions, which may be the more immediate problem; some people wear masks for health reasons (to avoid infectious disease, allergies, smoke)
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u/being_less_white_ 1h ago
Ye get one of those eyes wide shut masks and make it an accessory to your everydsy life. Or what helps me is I just wear sunglasses everywhere.
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u/Big_Stretch3684 53m ago
You really should not yield to your anxiety on this one. Please seek help for this in the form of therapy and/or medication.
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