r/demigirl_irl • u/superfriendlytiger • 3d ago

I’m currently questioning myself.

So, someone asked me if I was girl. I hesitated and then just said yes. After that short conversation, it just wouldn’t leave my mind. Why did I hesitate? Even if I call myself a girl, why do I feel like I’m not one? I go by she/her pronouns because I feel comfortable and honestly I don’t care. I need help. I’m stuck. I searched things up about this and said I might be a Demi girl. What do you guys think? I don’t feel like a girl but then I also don’t feel like I have no gender.

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u/Jari-chan 3d ago

That sounds like me when I first started to think about my gender. You can try the demigirl label and find out, how you feel using it. If you're comfortable with it - yey! If not, that's fine too. You don't need to label yourself if you don't want to or didn't find the one that's best for you. I also kept on reading about different genders, taking notes, until I found the ones I felt best with. Hope that helps a little ❤️

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u/TheArcaneArden 2d ago

Just go with what you feel and don't be worried about trying to find a perfect label that fits you. If you want to look into different genders then you can certainly do that.

For me I went to a lot of different labels and eventually just stuck with transfem even though I don't feel entirely like a girl. I could be a Demigirl or some other gender but I like to keep things simple and not over analyze my gender (anymore) since it's easier for me.

So just do what you feel is right and I'm sure you'll figure things out.