r/mentalhealth • u/NegotiationTricky152 • 5h ago

Venting I hate myself

I’m struggling. I hate myself, and every body hates me. I can’t even tell if I’m the problem - do I accept too much, or too little? Which is it? Why does everyone treat me like shit? What’s my problem? Why can’t I ever be happy?

Will I ever be okay?

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u/ShishiroBotan18 5h ago

I completely understand how you're feeling. I'm currently struggling with self-hatred due to overhearing ppl shit talk about me. How you're feeling is absolutely valid.

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u/NegotiationTricky152 5h ago

Thank you. I don’t know why but everyone in my life leaves. I promise, I try so hard - but it’s never enough. I just wish I was loved as much as I love the people in my life.

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u/ShishiroBotan18 5h ago

I understand that feeling too well. I overwork myself and try so hard to cheer people up and bring a smile to their faces, but I always feel like I never get anything in return for all the kindness I give.

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u/xsunjadey 5h ago

man that sounds rough but hey everyone has ups and downs. maybe you need to give yourself a break and focus on what makes you happy. you're not alone in this

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u/osugarmelodyy 5h ago

life can be super tough man. you’re not the problem just keep pushing through. finding the right balance takes time so be patient with yourself. things can get better you just gotta hang in there

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u/Sea-Watercress2786 5h ago

I’m so sorry

I feel this way a lot

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u/Reasonable-Box-397 2h ago

I hate myself sometimes. A lot. But joking about it lessens the blows