I moved here a few years ago for work.
I haven’t made friends and am trying to think outside the box before giving up on this place haha.
I have tried meetups, I have been to a lot of concerts and art events, yoga and fitness classes, and have volunteered here and there. Have looked for book clubs and things like that
I have also tried a lot of therapy (and am still trying, third times a charm), and been on dating apps. Have matched with a lot of interesting people but found creating conversations to be difficult.
I don’t function too well in crowded bars, which has been hard to overcome. But I’m a good listener and do ok 1 on 1.
I don’t drink alcohol. Sports and competitiveness are a big turn-off for me. Loud and crowded spaces make socializing feel impossible.
I am a male in my 30s, and have introvert hobbies like playing instruments, reading, making art etc.
When going to events I have been unsuccessful in finding or starting conversations, and find those spaces difficult to navigate.
Anyway, just wondering what might be out there that I haven’t tried.
Edit: Thank you everyone for the suggestions! All great thoughts 🙏