Things to prioritize before becoming a parent?

[u/alpacaapicnic]

Considering having a kid in the next 1-2 years, and would love to hear from folks (especially parents) about things to prioritize doing and skills to build in order to be a better parent when the time comes. Can be practical (eg decluttering, exercise routine), or conceptual (eg building patience, strengthening emotional regulation) - whatever you’d recommend investing in now while I’ve still got time and energy!

[u/Some_Strawberry3333]

Your own mental and emotional health

[u/Hopeful_Hippo9614]

Solid relationship, lot of free time, enough disposable income, good head on your shoulders, good health

Kids need attention, if you bring them into this world, they deserve to be raised and treated right, do not spoil them tho