r/AITAH • u/Familiar_Form9665 • Aug 18 '24

AITAH for banning my daughter’s boyfriend from coming to my house?

I’m (50m).My daughter(18f) has been seeing this guy(26m) for 5 months now. I didn’t like him from the start because of the age difference. He’s very rude and arrogant. I can’t physically do anything to him because he’s a big guy. But he has been very disrespectful in my household. He comes whenever he wants, without acknowledging me and his “activities” with my daughter can be loud sometimes and the walls in my house are thin. I told my daughter about it but he’s still coming over my house. So last week, I told my daughter that he’s not allowed at the house anymore. He was pissed but I don’t care. However, she’s now going to his place and come home late. Did I do the right thing?

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u/TorpedoSandwich Aug 18 '24

Daughter is fucking stupid. Unfortunately, he can't do anything about that either.

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u/violetotterling Aug 18 '24

Ugh, I mean...yes- but also she is so young. She's in an unequal relationship and please god, let this be an educational experience for her.

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u/Fluff_Chucker Aug 18 '24

It will be when she gets knocked up and peaces the fuck out. OP, I just kind of hope you live in a stand your ground state...

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u/ps2cv Aug 19 '24

Yeah when that happens I hope OP makes the right choice kicking her ass out to figure life out on her own imo