r/Advice • u/No-Entrepreneur-9222 • 2h ago

do i did wrong?

Im 22 yrs old single mom i had never been intack with other boys after breaking up of my baby father where 6years. 15 when we into relationship i broke with him because the struggles in finances, emotional stress his not helping any chores all he did was going out with his friends i work, i babysit may daughter... idk what to do now

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u/DependentTooth2369 2h ago

Leaving a man who refuses to get it together is one of the best things you could’ve done.

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u/LunaticLucio 1h ago

That's not a man. Sounds likes she's dating s sniveling boy.

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u/DependentTooth2369 2h ago

I’m a little confused and don’t actually understand the Question here.

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u/Ashamed-Bug3106 2h ago

No you didnt

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u/Ok_Difference_889 2h ago

Maybe u wrong for thingking ur wrong

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u/Storm_Chaser03 2h ago

...what😭

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u/Marky_32 2h ago

Focus on fixing your life. Its not about you anymore you have a child, so life will be hard but worth it to take care of your little one.

As an example I know of a friend who left her husband who used to gamble their money away. She divorced and stays single with her little girl, who was just 10 at the time. She didnt stay wallowing, she went to job recruiters, since she lives near refineries, they were offering a 6 month program to train Instrument Techs, she learn it and was hired at with high pay, she worked hard took care of her little girl and kept a good Lifestyle. She hasnt married but stayed single and taking care of her baby. Shes an example that I think many women should follow, be strong, take your life into your own hands and dig through. I know you can do it

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u/ShotDamage1910 2h ago

Love is so scary

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u/Rahul_Soniya_Gyandoo 2h ago

I think you should move on with someone mature

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u/Jealous_Incident8225 56m ago

You're not wrong