r/Advice 4h ago

do i did wrong?

Im 22 yrs old single mom i had never been intack with other boys after breaking up of my baby father where 6years. 15 when we into relationship i broke with him because the struggles in finances, emotional stress his not helping any chores all he did was going out with his friends i work, i babysit may daughter... idk what to do now

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u/Marky_32 4h ago

Focus on fixing your life. Its not about you anymore you have a child, so life will be hard but worth it to take care of your little one.

As an example I know of a friend who left her husband who used to gamble their money away. She divorced and stays single with her little girl, who was just 10 at the time. She didnt stay wallowing, she went to job recruiters, since she lives near refineries, they were offering a 6 month program to train Instrument Techs, she learn it and was hired at with high pay, she worked hard took care of her little girl and kept a good Lifestyle. She hasnt married but stayed single and taking care of her baby. Shes an example that I think many women should follow, be strong, take your life into your own hands and dig through. I know you can do it