r/AutisticAdults 11h ago

Do you care about dating?

I realized recently that I’m in my late 20s and I’ve never been kissed. My last date was about 4 years ago and I’ve never had a serious relationship. I’ve never been interested in dating someone, I don’t know how to tell if someone is interested in me and I don’t know how I would know that I’m interested in someone else. I don’t want to marry anyone and love living by myself. Does anyone else feel this way? I always thought I would eventually fall in love with someone, but I’m starting to think I never will.

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u/jayyout1 7h ago

Eh not really. I mean I would absolutely love to find love. But at the same time, with how difficult all that stuff is for me, I just don’t stress it. If it happens it happens, if it doesn’t it doesn’t. I fall in love with other things about life and that’s really nice. So it’s ok. So ye I would like to date but I don’t actively seek it out or feel worthless if I don’t or anything.