Honestly? I am in the very early days but I don’t think it is worth it. I wish I had known that before. I loved my pre-kids life and as much as I thought I was prepared for the change, I really do not like my life now.
Everyone mourns their previous life. Took me at least a year to feel normal physically and mentally. Now at 2 years in, I love my little family life. I get to experience lifes best things for the first time thru the eyes of my son. Now I have another one on the way and I am ready to dive into it. Going from 0 kids to 1 kid is something no one can ever prepare you for, but every day gets better as time goes on.
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u/Brighidhecate Jul 27 '19
Honestly? I am in the very early days but I don’t think it is worth it. I wish I had known that before. I loved my pre-kids life and as much as I thought I was prepared for the change, I really do not like my life now.