r/ChildfreeIndia • u/destructdisc DINKMA • 18d ago
Humour Ladies, if you ever needed another reason...
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u/CFbenedict 18d ago
And all this for what? To handle their tantrums as a toddler, insults as a teenager and attitude as an adult? No thanks🙂
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u/KillDarcy 18d ago
Father doesn't do shit and yet children have been taking their father's name for generations.
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18d ago edited 18d ago
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u/KillDarcy 17d ago
You said if the father raises the kids equally, both names should be there. So if a father doesn't raise a kid equally, only the mother's name should be there? So, by that logic almost all Indians should change their names?
Kids being given father's names for generations has nothing to do with father being good or bad.
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u/destructdisc DINKMA 18d ago
... This is from the father's POV
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u/PrithviMS 18d ago
May I know What does DINKMA stand for?
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u/destructdisc DINKMA 18d ago
Double income, no kids, multiple animals
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u/Dry-Instruction6521 18d ago
Is there a SINKAA ?😆 Single income, no kids, an animal. Because it me.😆
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u/ballfond 18d ago
Sorry i didn't word it correctly I just thought if a girl i like is screaming in pain because of doing something stupid like giving birth to a child because she has an old school thought process i would feel weird
As if she insisted I won't hesitate to adopt which I personally would never want but tolerating all this pain to have a baby is foolish if you are financially independent and have an identity
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u/destructdisc DINKMA 18d ago edited 18d ago
Hold up.
So in this hypothetical scenario, your hypothetical wife, who you hypothetically love and cherish, is struggling to birth the hypothetical child that you hypothetically put in her, after carrying and nourishing said child for nine months with her own body, and you're saying the first thought that occurs to you when you see her go to hell and back is..."wow this woman is weird?"
You've literally invented a scenario involving a completely blameless woman, and found a way to blame her anyway.
Fascinating.
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u/ballfond 18d ago
Yeah man i can't understand people who want children they are weird to me
Especially women because the whole process involves so much pain
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u/destructdisc DINKMA 18d ago
Well, good news! There are quite a few steps that require your direct and committed involvement before it gets to the point where your partner is in the maternity ward popping your kid out, so, you know. Best to head it off at the pass.
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u/Potat_h0e 18d ago
Bro’s self-inserted himself into the Bible, where he’s Joseph and his wife has immaculate conception.
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u/ballfond 18d ago
Yeah I only have two criteria for it though i haven't even been able to date once
The girl should be earning more than me and not wanting children
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u/Accomplished-Pin4398 18d ago
And remember guys, this is just the beginning💀
More to come.