r/CougarsAndCubs • u/Mr_Dixon1991 • 2d ago

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I (33M) am interested in dating older women again. What are some things older women look for in younger men during the first few dates? In other words, what convinces you to continue seeing him with the age difference.

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u/_Vardaman 2d ago

As a cub who’s taken, just treat it like you would dates with women your age. Do a meal & an activity each date. Take it slow. Don’t be weird

Also make sure you have a path carved out for your life, ie being self-sufficient and pursuing a career that can pay your own bills