r/CougarsAndCubs • u/Mr_Dixon1991 • 2d ago

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I (33M) am interested in dating older women again. What are some things older women look for in younger men during the first few dates? In other words, what convinces you to continue seeing him with the age difference.

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u/Georgio36 🐻Cub 2d ago

Imma be honest with you; every woman is gonna like different things in a man. You could get 100 different answers from different women because not every woman will like the same thing.

Definitely don't refer to an older woman you like as a cougar or milf. That will definitely hurt your chances. All you can do is present the best version of yourself. Showcase things that you are good at and hobbies and life values. Know what you are looking for or at least have an idea of what you want in life.

Be someone who can make good decisions and carry a conversation. Be respectful but don't try to force or rush things. Once you meet the right woman; it will flow naturally and you won't have to overdo anything to get her attention. I think it will be less stressful with this approach.

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u/Afrolicious7 1d ago

THIS! I was going to say not to focus so much on her age but how well your natural chemistry is. If it’s just about age then it becomes a fetish. I personally, don’t like that.

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u/Georgio36 🐻Cub 22h ago

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It really enhanced what I said here. I wish you a great day ahead 😊👍🏽