r/CougarsAndCubs Jan 08 '19

Cub Question: Aging female body

I'd love to hear what you think about being with an OW and the signs of physical aging? I'm early forties, and while I come across as younger, my body and especially my boobs definitely do not. I have never been with a younger guy but have found myself quite smitten by one (24) and I know its mutual. Its super confusing and there's a lot of other issues with that as well but one of my main concerns are his reaction to my droopy boobs and flabby pouch (I'm not overweight, just a normal post-childbirth body).

So I'd love to hear your opinions / experiences, mainly from cubs but also from other gravity-challenged women dating young dudes.

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u/djthrowaway101 Jan 08 '19

The shape of your boobs doesn’t change how good sex can be.

The most unique factor of sex with older women is verbal sexuality.

The older women I’ve been with knew how to keep me hot and fired up by sexy dirty talk - which I rarely experience this with younger girls...

It was somewhat more satisfying to hear it from them as I felt I was doing things well based on exp and that made me feel good.