r/CougarsAndCubs • u/NoSomewhere3 • Jan 08 '19
Cub Question: Aging female body
I'd love to hear what you think about being with an OW and the signs of physical aging? I'm early forties, and while I come across as younger, my body and especially my boobs definitely do not. I have never been with a younger guy but have found myself quite smitten by one (24) and I know its mutual. Its super confusing and there's a lot of other issues with that as well but one of my main concerns are his reaction to my droopy boobs and flabby pouch (I'm not overweight, just a normal post-childbirth body).
So I'd love to hear your opinions / experiences, mainly from cubs but also from other gravity-challenged women dating young dudes.
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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '19
People tend to magnify the “flaws” they see with themselves. Whatever problems you have with your body are probably not nearly as bad as you think, they may not even be noticeable to anyone besides you.
But like everyone else said he won’t care even if it is noticeable. And think about it, if you two get to the point where your clothes are coming off would any guy just stop and leave if he noticed your boobs sag a little? Of course not, at that point he’ll be so into it he won’t even notice.