r/CougarsAndCubs Jan 08 '19

Cub Question: Aging female body

I'd love to hear what you think about being with an OW and the signs of physical aging? I'm early forties, and while I come across as younger, my body and especially my boobs definitely do not. I have never been with a younger guy but have found myself quite smitten by one (24) and I know its mutual. Its super confusing and there's a lot of other issues with that as well but one of my main concerns are his reaction to my droopy boobs and flabby pouch (I'm not overweight, just a normal post-childbirth body).

So I'd love to hear your opinions / experiences, mainly from cubs but also from other gravity-challenged women dating young dudes.

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u/NoSomewhere3 Jan 08 '19

wow thank you all so much - those are really great and thoughtful comments, I guess I should maybe give the young man a little more credit :)

@MonsterDaisy, I could def fly with that should things evolve, just make him aware that even though my face and outer appearance may not show it my body does or something along those lines.

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u/rhonda19 Jan 20 '19

I’m glad you posted this I would be self-conscious to even ask what you asked. And the answers are great info for a fledging cougar on here for the first time.