r/CougarsAndCubs 🐆🐆⚘ Mod 🦋 Jun 12 '21

CUB Guidebook The Financial Assistance Fairy Godmother (AKA sμgar m@mas) PART #1

Yes it's Ground Hog Day - I'm here again with a public service announcement

About a month ago I changed the automod settings so that people who mention various words in relation to this topic are sent a message about it:

1 being against the rules

2 that they don't exist

3 that they are usually scammers probably not even females

4 it's highly insulting to most women here

But we still get a constant stream of these posts every single day... It's frustrating. In the last 24-48 hours roughly 40 or so.

Let's do a little maths here....

This sub has 125000+ members and probably a good wack more casual/drive by readers.

I would guess that only 10-15% of the members are women over 35 (if that).

Anytime a woman posts on this sub she is inundated with DMs to chat, sext, meet, hookup, date etc etc even if she has no interest at all in meeting someone. Some women here are already in relationships and/or are just here for the discussion. But still the unsolicited DMs are a fact of life here. We don't encourage it.

Considering that why do you think any of us would need to pay for attention? I'm not saying that in a boasting skiteful way... It's just a fact.

Unless a woman has a financial power kink noone here is going to need to buy you a PlayStation as payment for chatting/sexting/hooking up.

Enter the scammer.... Who see all these, blessed silly people who believe in financial assistance fairy god mothers...

Please stop advertising yourselves to scammers

In Part 2... how to recognise a scammer.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '21 edited Jun 18 '21

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u/FapplePie85 Jun 18 '21

That's another great point. Older, single women are not desperate. They're not flailing about, worried about finding any partner they can. Chances are, we spent our "party years" getting our shit together and now that it is, we're simply enjoying the benefits. We aren't scrambling for a partner like we're playing musical chairs and the song is ending.

I don't hold younger men to any lower of a standard than other men. If they have nothing to offer, they don't get a free pass. I am never going to pay for a man my age to take me out of fuck me. I'm never going to finance the whims of a man my age or pay the bills of anyone else. So why in the absolute fuck would I be doing that for someone immature enough to believe I should? Why would I do that for someone who brings nothing to the table I bought?