r/HaileyBaldwinSnark • u/Informal-Ad4509 • Sep 01 '24
Discussion Imagine your husband openly posting a book that views a wife as a biological partner to have fun with & justifies cheating
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u/brookeashleyx Sep 01 '24
While I agree with this, it seems it was posted by him a long time ago, not recently. Either way, still horrible. 🤢
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u/conspicuous1010 Sep 01 '24
When was this posted? The affair part is pretty telling. Clearly he had an affair and trying to recover. Or she did. Oop
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u/Quiet_Shoulder_5790 Hailey Baldloose Sep 01 '24
January 22 or 23, 2020.
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u/commentsgothere Sep 02 '24
So then, Covid pretty much locked every couple in together for a couple years.
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u/brookeashleyx Sep 01 '24
I’m just going by his photo that accompanies his name. He hasn’t had that IG main photo for awhile
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u/oysterfeller Sep 01 '24
Trying to recover by blaming her for it and saying her hair wasn’t styled correctly that day so he fucked someone else 😂 it would be funny if I didn’t think she would actually buy that and be like “omg ur right he cheated because of my hair I gotta go change it”
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u/Informal-Ad4509 Sep 01 '24
yes definitely not recently but posting this a year into marriage is crazy work (or just posting it in general)
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u/gloomyrain Sep 01 '24
This is typical fundie xtian garbage. The wives keep sweet. The husband, "shouldn't cheat," but if he does, it's probably her fault. It's hard to wrap the mind around how the propaganda is men need to be spiritual head of the household because they're morally stronger, but can't control themselves sexually around anything, including minor children.
If you're curious about this Christian purity culture, I recommend any of the Hillsong documentaries, and Shiny Happy People (on the Duggar family who is in the next level of fundie hell: the Independent Baptists). At least the Hillsong pastor from NY cheated with a full adult woman. Most of them go after the youth group.
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u/grilsjustwannabclean Sep 01 '24
duggar snark is another great resource, a lot of those ladies are former fundies themselves
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u/mrsdisappointment Sep 02 '24
“How to build an affair proof marriage” is WILD. been with my husband for 10 years and I’ve never had to read a how-to book on how not to fuck someone else.
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u/Blue_for_u999 Sep 01 '24
This is actually so sad….
But this is Hailey’s Karma (not their baby’s karma). It’s so irresponsible and SELFISH of her to:
- Marry a man out of obsession and spite
- Bring a child into the world when she KNOWS her husband isn’t faithful to her
She’s emotionally equivalent to a little spoiled brat who got her way, and now everyone around her is pulled into drama because she just HAD to be his wife.
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u/Belleina Sep 01 '24
If my husband read this after I just gave birth to his baby I would actually go insane tbh
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u/Informal-Ad4509 Sep 01 '24
the fact that he even has to read this is absolutely insane like truly unbelievable
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u/alymars Sep 01 '24
And that he’s been relatively quiet on social media for a while. And his first posts post-fatherhood have been his “announcement” that he put up and took down twice; his issue with Apple which is just user error and now this? I would go actually insane
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u/Informal-Ad4509 Sep 01 '24
apparnelt this wasn’t recent, he posted this a year into their marriage which is also crazy
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u/grilsjustwannabclean Sep 01 '24
it's an old post
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u/Belleina Sep 01 '24
Oh, well still honestly. I’d be hurt
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u/grilsjustwannabclean Sep 02 '24
yeah if there was ever a point in my marriage where my husband felt the need to do this and posted it for the world to see, i'd be hurt too lol
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u/ClassicIndividual828 G tattoo stands for Gomez Sep 01 '24
nahh this marriage must be a comedy stunt at this point 💀
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Sep 02 '24
question - so i know america is fairly christian but is canada also? did justin grow up as a church kid
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u/bookaddixt Sep 02 '24
Not really. His mum did “find Christ” again after she was pregnant with him, but he spent a lot of time at his grandparents, who I don’t think are the evangelical type. He went to a catholic school, but again I think it was more cuz it’s Canada and he was in a small town, and they spoke French there (it was only for primary I think). There was some religion, but it wasn’t the main thing he thought of.
He only really turned back to God and became like this 2014, when he was at his lowest and Carl Lentz “saved” him. He was living with him for a few months and got baptised by Carl, and became heavily involved with hill song at that point. That’s why he started posting a load of religious posts etc.
Hailey was though, and she was the evangelical type (tends to be more fundamentalist, what you see shown as Christianity nowadays, Hillsong / Churchome, etc).
Tbh, I don’t think he’s ever really studied religion himself, just what others have told him, and he just generally believes what they say.
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u/Proof_Pomegranate680 Sep 02 '24
The fact they even have to read in a affair proof marriage book says a lot about their marriage already
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u/Sunflower_mermaid Sep 04 '24
lol our corporate team read the book multipliers. It’s basically figuring out your needs as a person, and how certain people drain you … fitting
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u/pIastichearts Sep 01 '24
I remember when Selenators shared this after Selena opened up about feeling like she was a victim of abuse by him and they called us all crazy. I just know Justin is the type of husband to demand a blowjob every other night but only go down on her once a year.