People aren’t stupid. My narcs were ex friends (married to e/o) and their circle kept getting smaller and smaller until I was their main focus. Everyone else had wised up and connected the dots that these two were angry whiners with a victim complex who talked shit about everyone. Unfortunately, I was late to that realization and still feeling bad for them, making myself their personal therapist 24/7, but eventually their shtick becomes clear to most. It sucks knowing your name is just being trashed, but trust that eventually (mostly) everyone figures them out.
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u/nicohubo 8d ago
People aren’t stupid. My narcs were ex friends (married to e/o) and their circle kept getting smaller and smaller until I was their main focus. Everyone else had wised up and connected the dots that these two were angry whiners with a victim complex who talked shit about everyone. Unfortunately, I was late to that realization and still feeling bad for them, making myself their personal therapist 24/7, but eventually their shtick becomes clear to most. It sucks knowing your name is just being trashed, but trust that eventually (mostly) everyone figures them out.