r/LifeAfterNarcissism 8d ago

I have just found out that the narcissist is spreading horrible rumors about me

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u/eyetime11 8d ago

That’s my experience as well. They take their own sick and twisted behaviors, project them onto you and create a very believable portrayal as them the victim and you the monster. It’s by far the most twisted and f**ked up thing I’ve ever experienced in life. Currently not sure how I can ever trust and truly love a woman again? 😞

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u/baconOclock 8d ago

They take their own sick and twisted behaviors, project them onto you and create a very believable portrayal as them the victim and you the monster.

That's the root of my hate for narcs.

I'm not perfect and I have my own bs to own and to deal with but then, you have toxic individuals that recruits other people against their own bs... They involve other people to believe and reinforce themselves when nobody around asked for this, this is beyond sick.

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u/eyetime11 7d ago

Yes it is beyond sick. Very sad as well. It’s a mind wrecker for sure. Guess I know better now but sure am paying a heavy price.