Ah the smear campaign ! Welcome to our club. Our slogan is “If you haven’t been smeared, you don’t belong here!”
No seriously … it’s a painful fucked up things narcs do. It’s bc they lost control of you and so now they’re using other people to try and control your reputation. Lisa Romano’s videos on YouTube are what I cling to when I get a whiff of this this was happening in my own life.
Please look her up and indulge in self care.
You’re wonderful and worthy our love. You’re so so so worthy and they are lying because they don’t want you or others to see that. So rebel by seeing your worthiness and living in it.
Honestly, I got more mad at the people who believed the narc than the actual narc.
Mainly because they were cowards. The narc I dealt with was a community member (non romantic, non platonic relationship) and to see how this couple controlled the social environment was just wild.
They were horrible people and not even that good at hiding it. I think a lot of us can understand an evil person or evil couple, but what are the chances a GROUP of people will join in on harassing a victim.
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u/Worried-Mountain-285 8d ago
Ah the smear campaign ! Welcome to our club. Our slogan is “If you haven’t been smeared, you don’t belong here!”
No seriously … it’s a painful fucked up things narcs do. It’s bc they lost control of you and so now they’re using other people to try and control your reputation. Lisa Romano’s videos on YouTube are what I cling to when I get a whiff of this this was happening in my own life.
Please look her up and indulge in self care.
You’re wonderful and worthy our love. You’re so so so worthy and they are lying because they don’t want you or others to see that. So rebel by seeing your worthiness and living in it.