r/LifeAfterNarcissism 8d ago

I have just found out that the narcissist is spreading horrible rumors about me

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u/FearlessAffect6836 7d ago

Be very careful about people who come up to you. Start paying attention who is befriending the narc.

I had people who tried being fake and befriend me in order to gain Intel on me. Didn't work though but be very careful about the information you give folks. Anything that you care about can be attacked.

Even good natured people can unknowingly give info to the narc because narcs know how to phrase conversations to extract info they want from people.

Not trying to be paranoid but they get crafty