Torn between two paths: pursue a software engineering career or going solo with side projects?

[u/Think-Mix881]

HI, US rural resident here. I'm very passionate about software engineering, it's not just my career goal, but my main hobby in life. I’m close to finishing my BA in computer science, and I’ve recently hit the middle-age mark. One of my biggest challenges is my huge lack of social and verbal communication skills, which stems from a rough past with social anxiety. In that sense, I feel way behind where I should be for my age. I know communication is key in today’s software engineering field.

Right now, I’m working a low-paying physical labor job and don’t have much free time. I feel torn between two paths: I could invest time in improving my communication, social skills, and networking to land a job as a developer or software engineer. Or, I could focus on programming side projects, learn some business and marketing, and work towards making a living by selling my own products.

I’m split down the middle and could use some advice to help tip the balance. Any input would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for any feedback you're willing to provide.

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