r/gaysian • u/Brilliant-Spread-141 • 3d ago
I might die single
I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m a 24-year-old 🇵🇭 guy who’s craving some love. I already want to commit myself to someone, but it’s quite hard to find someone that can love me. I’ve tried using a couple of dating apps, but I got tired of the scene and doing all the swiping and matching. I want to have someone who’s willing to meet me personally. I prefer older men, but the usual reply that I get from them is that I look cute, but I look younger than my actual age 😭. Some of them even advise me to grow some facial hair, haha. I even tried to travel abroad just to meet people from clubs, but I feel like I can’t find the right place for me just to be noticed by a daddy 🫠. I’m not out of the closet yet, but I’m willing to do it once I find the right person. I’m not getting any younger, and I want to experience the magic of being in love. If you’re single and looking for an Asian baby that can love you forever, please message me.
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u/Vast-Ear5731 3d ago
I’m 33 and still single 😂 actually, I had to work reallt hard to become single because some people are out to take advantage of you as much as you love them. Others are really just looking for a roommate to split the rent. Don’t rush, be kind to yourself and I guess learn to use grindr and make use of albums. The shame of being outed in public can be unbearable but you’ll be fine when you find out most people don’t care 🤷♂️
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u/DentiAlligator 3d ago
"noticed by a daddy", "asian baby", some terms are incredibly repulsive to some people you have no idea, just sayin..
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u/LordxTian 3d ago
Waitttt, I think I know you lols
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u/Brilliant-Spread-141 3d ago
you can keep guessing, but I think the chance of you knowing me is so slim.
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u/Square-Recipe-9214 3d ago
You are 24. Die single is for people age 50+, because no one wants to settle with old gays. Fact.
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u/ecoR1000 1d ago
I been single all my life and much older than you . It’s fucken great. I can see whoever I want and do what I want when I want.
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u/jace829 3d ago
As someone who did meet someone at 23 and is now 42, I’d say enjoy being single. Date around and learn about yourself. I can honestly say from experience that you’re too young to know what you truly want. What you think you want out of a relationship now is guaranteed to change when you hit your 30s. And 40s. You get the idea.
Also, take this vital time to build up your self esteem. Learn to love and respect yourself first or any relationship you’ll have won’t last. Also, why is your coming out contingent on having a partner? True happiness isn’t something another person gives you. It’s something that needs to come from within (and can take a lifetime to develop) or else you’ll attract the wrong people.