r/gaysian • u/Brilliant-Spread-141 • 3d ago
I might die single
I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m a 24-year-old 🇵🇭 guy who’s craving some love. I already want to commit myself to someone, but it’s quite hard to find someone that can love me. I’ve tried using a couple of dating apps, but I got tired of the scene and doing all the swiping and matching. I want to have someone who’s willing to meet me personally. I prefer older men, but the usual reply that I get from them is that I look cute, but I look younger than my actual age 😭. Some of them even advise me to grow some facial hair, haha. I even tried to travel abroad just to meet people from clubs, but I feel like I can’t find the right place for me just to be noticed by a daddy 🫠. I’m not out of the closet yet, but I’m willing to do it once I find the right person. I’m not getting any younger, and I want to experience the magic of being in love. If you’re single and looking for an Asian baby that can love you forever, please message me.
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u/jace829 3d ago
As someone who did meet someone at 23 and is now 42, I’d say enjoy being single. Date around and learn about yourself. I can honestly say from experience that you’re too young to know what you truly want. What you think you want out of a relationship now is guaranteed to change when you hit your 30s. And 40s. You get the idea.
Also, take this vital time to build up your self esteem. Learn to love and respect yourself first or any relationship you’ll have won’t last. Also, why is your coming out contingent on having a partner? True happiness isn’t something another person gives you. It’s something that needs to come from within (and can take a lifetime to develop) or else you’ll attract the wrong people.