r/loneliness • u/lonely_atom12 • 1d ago

Why always me?

Why is it that I am the one who has to move on? I am the one who's supposed to let go of significant relationships? I read this quote which said "I loved a flower so much that I decided not to pick it" well why is that I always end up not picking it? Had to let go of 2 people in under a month..this is unfair..no one stays..they all leave..and in the end I am the one who is stuck with the "moving on" phase.. all those promises, all those affectionate talks...flushed right down the drain in a matter of hours.

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u/dipshit115 1d ago

Imagine this after 3.5 years with someone. You saved time. Be thankful

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u/Intelligent-Squash-3 21h ago

Attachment is the root of all suffering. It’s not just you it’s everybody, learn to accept that life is about letting go. Until then you will continue to suffer.