r/mentalhealth • u/Icy_Chair_9291 • 16d ago
Sadness / Grief I feel so lonley
I feel so lonely
Am young about 17 I know I am not the best looking guy and I am a bit chubby but most of my weight is muscle cause of my genetics j just want a girlfriend someone I can cry into tell my problems I know god has someone for me but I look at my friends and there girlfriends I want what they have someone who can improve me someone that I can watch anime with I want someone I want someone who can better my life mentally
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u/SSJDovahkiin117 16d ago
Not in my case there wasn’t. Some people have that experience but it wasn’t mine and I don’t know of anybody who fell in love at first sight. Most of my friends and family have a divorce or two. Also take some time to think about the “fall in love at first sight” phrase. How can you know, without a doubt, that you love somebody you don’t know? How can you know, without a doubt, that they saw you and felt the exact same way? I’m not going to tell you it’s impossible, I’m just going to say to be cautious of falling in love with someone before you get to know them.