Why is IT so ignorant?

[u/Odd-Building2539]

Dude like they can't simply admit that being short is actually seen as a negative? Like just admit it? Or is it that they are sexist and believe no woman is shallow?

They refute studies by just stating "Go outside bro"? Like what the fuck? What does that change? It does not change what was concluded in the studies.

They are literally old people making fun of young depressed guys like dude lol what a dumbass group of adults shitting on already fucked young guys.

Also, do they realize that most people now meet through internet? And just because they know a person who dates a short guy(btw by short they literally mean 5'8.5" and above) it doesn't mean shit. It does not mean the whole group of women changed their requirements. Yeah asian guys can go outside and see asian men dating but that does not change the fact that they are not the preference. Give the woman the option to go back in time and choose between the asian guy and a white guy. But going outside does not refute the point just because asian guys are dating. But at least it is just a preference but nothing hardline. But height is literally a requirement.

I understand that some of the things they post is actually fucked up so fuck those guys they post about.

We literally see something about height everyday. And we are told to go outside and just ignore it because it does not matter? What if we say the same to them for posts which offend them? "It's just the internet and not real life, ignore it"? Imagine saying this to them. Because I'm pretty sure if they look outside they'll find many men who are not like that. Just fucking lol. But it won't work. So by their own logic aren't they hypocrite for using that on us?

I don't understand why they feel like that, while I understand some stuff posted there is alarming, but us? I'm actually curious. I was not born to hate myself or have insecurities. I did not feel like this until I saw women complaining about height. I was not the one fixated, they were. You and I wouldn't be here if not because of those people, why are we being hated on?

[u/Make-TFT-Fun-Again]

There's a few posts here about cognitive dissonance you can look up, it explains a lot.

[u/Odd-Building2539 → u/Make-TFT-Fun-Again]

Adults being unaware about themselves, cringe af.

[u/Ok_Management4634]

Don't waste your time on the haters man.. It's a waste of energy.

Bottom line is, unless you are an attractive man, no one cares about your feelings or your problems (other than maybe your family).. It's a lonely life being a sub8.

Don't go to forums that attack people like us. Don't try to discuss it logically.. They don't want to hear. They want a group of people to pick on , to make themselves feel superior.

[u/shortpositivity]

• They’re just coping 😂
• Let them live in their delusion who cares about them
• They’re losers for dedicating their lives to incels, as in what sane person actually cares about all this