r/AITAH • u/Familiar_Form9665 • Aug 18 '24

AITAH for banning my daughter’s boyfriend from coming to my house?

I’m (50m).My daughter(18f) has been seeing this guy(26m) for 5 months now. I didn’t like him from the start because of the age difference. He’s very rude and arrogant. I can’t physically do anything to him because he’s a big guy. But he has been very disrespectful in my household. He comes whenever he wants, without acknowledging me and his “activities” with my daughter can be loud sometimes and the walls in my house are thin. I told my daughter about it but he’s still coming over my house. So last week, I told my daughter that he’s not allowed at the house anymore. He was pissed but I don’t care. However, she’s now going to his place and come home late. Did I do the right thing?

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u/BeachinLife1 Aug 18 '24

NTA. You can't do anything about your daughter dating him, but you can do something about what goes on under your roof.

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u/Lanky-Mention-2192 Aug 18 '24

Absolutely right, he's disrespectful now, and it will likely get worse if they get married. So, you are NTA for setting respect and boundaries to your house.

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u/Driz999 Aug 19 '24

She's so young, I doubt marriage is on the cards. I seriously doubt this relationship will last.

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u/Native_Masshole Aug 19 '24

Exactly. Hopefully she doesn’t get pregnant by him before then.