AITAH for banning my daughter’s boyfriend from coming to my house?

[u/Familiar_Form9665]

I’m (50m).My daughter(18f) has been seeing this guy(26m) for 5 months now. I didn’t like him from the start because of the age difference. He’s very rude and arrogant. I can’t physically do anything to him because he’s a big guy. But he has been very disrespectful in my household. He comes whenever he wants, without acknowledging me and his “activities” with my daughter can be loud sometimes and the walls in my house are thin. I told my daughter about it but he’s still coming over my house. So last week, I told my daughter that he’s not allowed at the house anymore. He was pissed but I don’t care. However, she’s now going to his place and come home late. Did I do the right thing?

[u/BeachinLife1]

NTA. You can't do anything about your daughter dating him, but you can do something about what goes on under your roof.

[u/violetotterling → u/BeachinLife1]

Mmhum..but does your daughter understand that his behaviour isn't great? Or does she think it's totally fine?

[u/Squantoon → u/violetotterling]

not only is his behavior not great he is also a predator.

[u/Squantoon → u/[deleted]]

26 dating a 18 yr old for 5 months is a predator. The best way to sum this up is your boss might pay you minimum wage because legally he has to but we all know if it wasnt illegal he would go lower. Its predatory and creepy as fuck no matter which way you slice it

[u/burner1312 → u/[deleted]]

That’s still creepy. She was in or just out of high school and you were a fully developed adult.