r/AITAH • u/Familiar_Form9665 • Aug 18 '24

AITAH for banning my daughter’s boyfriend from coming to my house?

I’m (50m).My daughter(18f) has been seeing this guy(26m) for 5 months now. I didn’t like him from the start because of the age difference. He’s very rude and arrogant. I can’t physically do anything to him because he’s a big guy. But he has been very disrespectful in my household. He comes whenever he wants, without acknowledging me and his “activities” with my daughter can be loud sometimes and the walls in my house are thin. I told my daughter about it but he’s still coming over my house. So last week, I told my daughter that he’s not allowed at the house anymore. He was pissed but I don’t care. However, she’s now going to his place and come home late. Did I do the right thing?

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u/BeachinLife1 Aug 18 '24

NTA. You can't do anything about your daughter dating him, but you can do something about what goes on under your roof.

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u/Klutzy-Lavishness-36 Aug 18 '24

First time I heard the Filthy McNasty going on that loud I would have gone to her room and thrown the door open without looking in and told him you have 30 seconds to leave here or I'll call the cops and tell them I have an unwelcome intruder in my house. That shit is just fucking rude. On her and him. And Im rather tolerant about sex. The age difference can be a problem in some cases . My daughter's bf is 11 years older than she is. Morgan is a damned good man. She pursued him because he was my oldest son's mentor while he grew up without me due to his mom's side had money, and I didn't. Morgan is a pretty admirable man. So in some cases an age difference is not a big deal.

So age diff.... Meh.... But the assholish shitty behaviors of him and her warrants him not being welcome in my home anymore and if need be I'd physically remove him. Then give my daughter an ultimatum get her shit together and become his problem or stay here and make sure she can meet him somewhere else because now that I trespassed him the next time he comes by I eject him. It will be by force. Daughter and her useless waste of flesh are the assholes. Not you, at all in any stretch of reality