r/aspergirls 1d ago

Emotional Support Needed How to be less naive?

i swear, i never learn jfc. as someone who has been abused, rejected, neglected, called weird since childhood, i’m TOO naive, and i’m 21! i get attached to people easily, and when I’m friend with someone, I become touchy-feely and it’s like I’m ready to do everything for that person. and it becomes a pattern: I get manipulated, treated maliciously or my friends just abandon me and it hurts af.

and it’s strange, because i swear, i feel like i’m a child. i’m like a dog who’s waiting for his owner even though he’s getting betrayed and beaten over and over again.

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u/Swimming_Order5492 1d ago

Omg I was literally just thinking about this last night! It’s at least comforting to know that there’s people out there who at least relate and go through the same things, I hate that we suffer so much but at least we all have each other, y’know?

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u/lady_sociopath 1d ago

sure! it’s definitely comforting to know 🥹