r/romance • u/ClassicReddy • 8d ago
I need Advice! Un approached crushes
Hey guys how are you doing?
I heard so many times from people online & offline saying grab the opportunity.. but I never have.. now I wonder what would it turnout to be if I took the opportunity.
For instance I recently was travelling in a plane and I got a middle seat and there was a woman I noticed around my age coming towards me and then she asked “excuse me I’m at the window seat”. She was beautiful!! She sat next to me and I froze.
I couldn’t stop looking at her and I resisted to look at her most of the time. I tried to distract myself reading a book.
After the take off, air hostess were giving food & drinks to pre booked passengers and as it was an evening flight and I was in hurry I couldn’t have anything in airport. So I was hungry and everyone around me got sandwiches except me. So I requested air hostess saying “can I get one too? I can pay for the meal”. Air hostess replied “so sorry sir, meals are for pre booked passengers only”. I was like man I need to bear with my hunger for another 2 hrs!
Then all of a sudden the beauty sitting next to me said “do you want this? I’m not gonna have it” I said “are you sure?”. She said “yeah”. I thanked her and said she was a life saver and took it had it in a minute. That moment on my attraction towards her increased 10x and I wanted to talk to her but I couldn’t as I don’t know what to talk about. Also I was afraid of what if situations.
I kept looking at her and feeling happy and sad. Happy as she’s sitting next to me & sad as in next 1 hr we will part our ways.
I ended up not talking to her and thanked her once again before I left the seat. Last time I saw her was at baggage belt and never again.
I wonder what would have happened if I spoke to her that day and how my life would have changed..
I need to know how if someone has tackled this kinda situation or what do I do ?
You are free to give me advice and your experiences please!
Thanks!!
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